Well I'm about to give up on trying to fix these links, I can't do it, I've already forwarded the ones that Google is picking up on it's scans and it's still picking them up? I've checked the links to be sure they have been redirected, and they are, yet Google is still picking them up as 404 pages....
I now still have only 16 pages indexed and my 404 errors have gone up by 2 more

If I wipe out this Wordpress will it fix it do you think? Or am I stuck now? I'm really not happy with this mess at all, I hate to lose the blog as I was just starting to really get the hang of it, but if it's going to cause me this much trouble it's not worth it. I'm just afraid if I take it all down that I'll still have the problems and now no blog either ....
Any other suggestions? I'll go see if I can get some help or find some posts on Word press tonight too.