Here is a website I build with VSD and it has tons of graphics. I had similar problems. But when I cleaned the server off and reload, it worked great. I built this one back in 2006 and I think I have changed it a couple of times since then.
www.postmyhorse.com
If you need help with getting VSD connected to your server, many of us in here can help you out with making sure you have the right settings.
Kim