what is the domain name

vintonwarmemorial.com (the old site - on Go Daddy)

So that's where your domain is hosted you must put your new web-site there unless you move your domain to another hosting service of course it won't work anywhere else.

So you just need to upload your new site via a FTP app to over-write the old site, using whatever the FTP settings were for your old site.

I can see a problem,

Seems that you let the old domain name expire on the 7th Sept 2015.

It is still hosted and registered to Go-Daddy (and still active)

It is a bit late to get it back easily now but is possible even at this stage to get it back. You will have to contact Go-Daddy and get them to start the procedure to retrieve the domain name. www.vintonwarmemorial.com. It probably won't be available for registering for another few months.

If you want to start again you need to register a new domain name www.*********************.com then have it hosted with another hosting provider, who will give you the FTP settings required to load your web-site files onto their server.

1and1.com are pretty good and reasonably priced and very good customer support, can usually get it going within a few hours.

Thank you for your help!