Thanks for responding

OMG I am so lost. I have been trying to get my head around the responsive theme and menu...I have been working online trying to get the page to look like the Responsive Citrus theme and have a menu that is responsive. I can picture it but all I see is this
gnomesvillewa.com.au lol. Not cool.
I want the site to function before I customize it beyond buttons...and I am using basic buttons for now.
I changed the .wif files to .png because we can't upload .wifs
I put the background files where i thought they would go...stylesheet file and js file.
The menu seems to work on the
http://gnomesvillewa.coffeecup.com/gnomesville.html page (which is the file that was created when I exported my menu from Menu Builder) and when I try to create another .html page from the same file it is just a series of long boxes...
gnomesvillewa.com.au
I am understanding that I need to put code into two places on each page of html (head and body)to make the menu appear but I can't even get that to work.
Is it something small I am overlooking? I have been reading up on this and trying lots of different things. I appreciate your help. I feel I am going around in circles atm. Probably making things harder than they really are. Thanks in advance