Anyways, I've got this fixed I "think", I had to fool the cPanel's redirect system as it puts characters at the end of the link that you don't want so I removed them and wallah! all them nasty links are now redirected to mostly just the main blog page. If I was able to decipher the exact page they were being referred to I put them links in the same, but if not they went to the default blog page. Hopefully that will be fine. If not that's just tough cuz I just spent about 2 hours doing all this LOL. This was 'AFTER' I had done it all last week and apparently messed it up somewhere and crashed my site LOL, well not really crashed it, just crashed the links as they couldn't find the site lol. I removed em all and said "forget it" after that but then just relialized what I was doing wrong today so went back and redid them (checking each one as I did it before moving on this time lol).
Anyways, I want to say thank you to everyone that tried helping with this issue. All the links are redirected and I'll run a new sitemap and resubmit it shortly and see what happens. I'm sure if I missed any it will show me them so it's all good

Just for the sake of anyone else that might have this issue, which I doubt as it sure was weird to me lol, here's what I had to do:
In google it shows the Crawl Errors of any links it found problems with. On that main page there were a ton of links that had all the strange characters in them that basically just stood for a horizontal character such as this | so I opened those links to get the real page URL and used directories of that URL not the one on the Google Crawl Error page itself. In other words if it was like this:
blog/*%7CUPDATE_PROFILE%7C*
then I clicked the link in the google page to get the real URL which was like this:
/blog/topics/2010/01
/*|UPDATE_PROFILE|/*
I then put the redirect into the cPanel to the page I wanted it to go to. Then I loaded up the .htaccess page from the server and edited the links to remove the characters it added to the end of each link such as this:
http\:\/\/accessoriesoftheworld\.com\/blog\/$1" [R=301,L]
was changed to this: (removing the highlighted characters above)
http\:\/\/accessoriesoftheworld\.com\/blog" [R=301,L]
I did that for each of the links I had redirected which was about 80+ of them lol, man did I make a mess somewhere or what with this blog!
Hopefully this will help someone else in the future and if not at least it's a testimony of the great support people in this forums get
