Hi. I had a look at your page, and the problem might not be the form (just a guess, I will explain). In your code, you have the regular things like <head> <meta> <link rel="stylesheet.. and then you close the </head> tag, and open the <body> tag. After that, you introduce a javascript, inside of another <head> (javascript) </head> tag. Having the <head> tag twice in a web page can mess things up for the entire page. Try removing the second <head></head> tag and move your java code into the original <head> </head> tag section.
The other problem can simply be forgeting to upload the swfobject.js file, which is needed to load the form. Chech that all files created with the form editor have been uploaded to your server.
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