Our special needs son was desperate for a dog at the age of 14, and for the first 2 years, it had the desired effect both ways, homeless dog got a best friend and home, friendless child got a companion and so on.
Now he is 19 going on 12, child has little time for dog, my wife is at work all day, I cant handle the dog as he is to strong for me to walk etc, he has pulled my back out once already, and getting up and down to him all day when i am not in workshop myself is a little tiresome. Now the dog is not getting the attention it deserves, requires, nor enough exercise etc. etc. etc.
To make matters worse the dog hates going in the car, and when we are away on our boat he keeps us awake a lot of the night whimpering at all the noises outside, when the engine is running it has its tail between its legs, and at every bridge whole jumps of the boat and has almost caused accidents by getting up onto the road above . I tried tying him to boat that was almost disastrous, as he jumped and got trapped because of the rope.
I wish i had never given in and let him have the dog, or at least refused to let him have the Staff he wanted, but he would not accept something small and more handleable (Jack Russell) or similar shame lots of boaters have them, and they all seem to be of a more suitable nature.
How long does a Staffy live ? i have the responsibility until then, and rightly so , well at least my wife does she bought it for him.