theoretically your sitemap should appear at something like
yourwebsiteurl.co.uk/sitemap.xml or yourwebsiteurl.co.uk/sitemap folder name/sitemap.xml
I just pulled up kimberlyconwaysart.com/sitemap.xml and it gave me a page that has what I'm guessing is the sitemap but it has at the top "This XML file does not appear to have any style information associated with it. The document tree is shown below." I'll have to do more research on this.. also, I was playing around with adding a page to my shopping cart and putting the sitemap there but I can't figure out how to put it on a page in SCCP. Guess I'll have to spend some time on that later today as well.
Thanks everyone for your help!