Thanks Eric!
I just have 1 more issue and then I'll be a Happy Man..... for some reason some of my pages aren't recognized, I get a "whoops we can't find that on our map with the s-drive logo.  I see the problem the url is shown as this: 
http://www.midlandparknj.org/www.midlan … tment.html  so it's basically repeated part of the address on certain pages.  When I view the published html menu on a test page it recognizes the tab and goes to the page no problem.  Any idea what the problem can be here?  I talked to the guys at Coffecup and they said to reenter the url where I created the menu and I did.  I also double checked the page ID properties and re-entered them too.
John