How do I make the form have a horizontal layout...I can order the fields horizontally but I can't make the submit button go where I want it to. Also lots of people mention to use a logic expression instead of the recaptcha - something like 2 plus 2 =4 however noone actually includes the code...do I have to use the number field or can I make this a reg expression one.

Is this what your looking for?
http://progrower.coffeecup.com/forms/submit-move/

Yes, that is exactly what I would like to do...is there a theme layout for this....what I am hoping is not to go into the css cause then if I update the form, I have to go change the css again. If the only way is to fool with the css then Oh well.

This is easily achieved without hacking the html. And no JQuery.
Make your form and preview it. Now look at the source code near the bottom you should see something like this.

Copy the source code into an html element on your form. Then paste the code I have below above it in the html element.

So you end up with this in the final html element.

What were doing is adding the code that will hide the original button and removing the holding div that has that class from our custom code so it will always show. The best part is that you can now have a submit button anywhere you want.