A few things to help with your site map.
1. When you run Sitemapper and have your list of pages it has found, find the sitemap.htm or sitemap.html which ever you have called it, right click on it and add to the Exclude list. The reason is that when Google robots visit your site you don't want it continually following pages it has already started to index.
2. Only place a link to your sitemap.html on the index.html page of your site, that is, the entry page, this is fro the same reason as in the above suggestion.
3. Go to
http://www.google.com/webmasters/ and create an account.
4. Once you have created an account you need to submit your sitemap.xml file that Sitemapper created, once you have done this and Google has gathered and indexed your site you will be able to use the Webmaster Tools to see how your site is progressing.
Just spend a little title on the Webmaster Tools pages to see how it works, it will be beneficial to you.
Hope this helps.
Jim
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